girls

The song 'girls' by girl in red is a poignant exploration of the internal conflict and societal pressures faced by someone coming to terms with their same-sex attraction. The lyrics convey a sense of hiding and the fear of judgment ('Afraid of what they'll say'), which is a common experience for many in the LGBTQ+ community, especially when they are first acknowledging their feelings. The artist expresses a deep admiration for girls, highlighting their beauty and the pain that comes with not being able to express these feelings openly ('They're so pretty it hurts').

The song also touches on the societal expectations of heteronormativity, as the singer mentions an attempt to conform by being interested in a guy, but ultimately acknowledges that it's not genuine ('I should be into this guy / But it's just a waste of time'). This struggle between societal norms and personal truth is a central theme of the song. The repetition of 'I'm not talking 'bout boys, I'm talking 'bout girls' serves as a powerful affirmation of the singer's true desires, challenging the default assumption of heterosexuality.

Lastly, 'girls' is a declaration that these feelings are not a phase or something that will change with time ('No, this is not a phase / Or a coming of age / This will never change'). It's a message of self-acceptance and the recognition that love is not a choice ('It's not like I get to choose who I love'). The song resonates with anyone who has struggled with their identity and the courage it takes to be true to oneself in the face of societal expectations.