Crush Culture

Conan Gray's 'Crush Culture' is a candid expression of frustration with the modern dating scene, particularly the superficiality and manipulation that often accompany young love and infatuation. The song's lyrics convey a sense of disillusionment with the way romantic interests are pursued and the emotional games that are played. Gray's perspective is one of a bystander who is tired of the performative aspects of crushes and the expectations to participate in what he sees as a shallow and insincere culture.

The chorus, 'Crush culture makes me wanna spill my guts out,' suggests a desire to be open and honest about his feelings of alienation from the typical behaviors associated with having a crush. The repetition of 'spill my guts out' emphasizes the intensity of his emotions and his yearning to escape the pressures of conforming to crush culture. Gray's use of the term 'loveproof' indicates a protective stance against falling for someone, as if to shield himself from the potential heartache and disappointment that might follow.

The song also touches on the theme of loneliness and the societal expectation to always be seeking romantic connections. Gray's declaration of preferring to be 'sad and lonely' rather than succumb to the manipulative games of crush culture is a powerful statement of self-preservation and authenticity. It's a reminder that it's okay to step back from the romantic pursuits that feel inauthentic and to embrace one's own company instead of feeling pressured to be part of a 'kissing cult.'