Only Ones Who Know

The Arctic Monkeys' song 'Only Ones Who Know' is a poignant ballad that delves into the themes of love, longing, and the fleeting nature of romantic connections. The lyrics paint a picture of a love that is both intense and transient, with the protagonist reflecting on a relationship that seems to have slipped away. The opening lines set the scene in a 'foreign place,' suggesting a sense of adventure and newness, but also hinting at the isolation that can accompany being away from familiar surroundings. The 'saving grace' is the emotional connection with another person, which is described as a form of theft, implying that the love was so powerful it felt like it was taken from him.

As the song progresses, the lyrics touch on the idea of unfulfilled potential in the relationship. The lines 'And even if somehow we could have / Shown you the place you wanted' suggest a missed opportunity for deeper connection or understanding. The sentiment that the other person could have 'made it that bit / Better on your own' speaks to a sense of independence and perhaps a recognition that the relationship was not meant to be. The mention of Juliet alludes to the ultimate tragic love story, Romeo and Juliet, which further underscores the theme of doomed romance.

The chorus reflects on the commonality of making promises that are not kept, and the ease with which people believe in the ideal of 'true romance,' despite evidence to the contrary. The hope that they are 'holding hands by New Year's Eve' is a poignant wish for lasting love, even as the song acknowledges the rarity of such an outcome. The repeated line 'You are the only ones who know' serves as a reminder that every love story is unique and deeply personal, known fully only to those who live it.