My Own

Whitaker's song 'My Own' delves deep into the emotional turmoil of a love that has faded over time. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a relationship that once burned brightly but has now turned cold and distant. The opening lines question the very existence of the love that once was, suggesting that it might have been nothing more than a temporary comfort against the fear of the unknown. This metaphor of love as a fire that once kept out the cold but has now turned to coal is a powerful image of how passion can wane and leave behind only remnants of what once was.

The song reminisces about the past, recalling the intensity of their connection with lines like 'The heavy way we used to kiss' and 'We'd set the world alight.' These memories are contrasted with the present reality, where the singer observes the changes in their partner, noting a 'tired, unfamiliar face.' This stark contrast between past and present highlights the inevitable changes that time brings, even to the most passionate of relationships.

The chorus reveals the singer's sense of loss and loneliness, as they reflect on how they used to call their partner 'my own' but now find themselves 'drunk alone.' This poignant admission underscores the deep sense of abandonment and the struggle to come to terms with the end of a significant chapter in their life. The repetition of 'my dear' adds a layer of tenderness and sorrow, emphasizing the emotional weight of the loss. Whitaker's 'My Own' is a haunting exploration of love's impermanence and the pain of watching it slip away.