If You Can't Hang

Sleeping With Sirens' song "If You Can't Hang" is a raw and emotional portrayal of betrayal and the subsequent journey to self-empowerment. The lyrics tell the story of a young man who falls in love with a girl, believing she is 'the one,' only to discover that she has been unfaithful. The song's title, 'If You Can't Hang,' serves as a defiant farewell to the girl, suggesting that if she cannot be committed and loyal, then she should leave.

The narrative unfolds as the protagonist reflects on the relationship, expressing a mix of hurt and anger. He acknowledges the changes he made for her, which ultimately led nowhere as she left him for someone else. The repeated lines about her being a 'pretty face' but a 'waste of my time' underscore the idea that physical attraction can be deceiving, and that inner qualities are what truly matter in a relationship. The song's chorus is a powerful statement of self-respect, as the protagonist decides he will no longer tolerate being treated poorly.

Towards the end of the song, there is a glimmer of hope as the protagonist meets another girl at twenty-three, suggesting that he has found someone who reciprocates his love and effort. This shift in tone from bitterness to cautious optimism indicates a personal growth and the ability to move on from past heartbreak. The song resonates with anyone who has experienced the pain of unrequited love and the strength it takes to let go and find happiness elsewhere.