El Ejemplo

The song 'El Ejemplo' by Los Tigres del Norte, a prominent norteño band known for their corridos that often tell stories of life, love, and society, delves into the complexities of a strained marital relationship. The lyrics speak from the perspective of a person who feels pushed away by their partner, leading to emotional detachment. Despite the change in feelings, the protagonist remains committed to maintaining the appearance of a loving relationship for the sake of their children.

The song's narrator expresses a sense of obligation to provide a stable family environment, even if it means living a lie. The repeated refrain 'Por que yo no he de dar el ejemplo / De dejar a mis hijos sin padre' translates to 'Because I will not set the example / Of leaving my children without a father,' highlighting the narrator's dedication to his paternal role over his personal happiness. This sentiment reflects a cultural emphasis on family unity and the sacrifices parents make to shield their children from the pain of a broken home.

'El Ejemplo' touches on the theme of sacrifice and the societal pressures that can lead individuals to endure unhappy relationships. The song portrays the internal conflict between personal fulfillment and parental responsibility, a struggle that resonates with many who face similar dilemmas in their own lives. The facade of affection 'Frente a ellos te haré una caricia / Pero es falsa de sobra lo sabes' ('In front of them, I will give you a caress / But it's fake, you well know') serves as a poignant metaphor for the sacrifices made in the name of family.