Call Me When You're Sober

Evanescence's 'Call Me When You're Sober' is a powerful rock ballad that delves into the emotional turmoil of dealing with a partner who is unreliable and possibly struggling with addiction. The song, led by Amy Lee's haunting vocals, conveys a sense of frustration and betrayal, as the lyrics speak to someone who has been let down by their significant other's empty promises and inability to be present in the relationship.

The chorus, 'Don't cry to me, if you loved me, you would be here with me,' reflects the protagonist's realization that love is not just about words, but also about actions. The repeated plea to 'make up your mind' suggests a final ultimatum being given to the partner to choose between their destructive behavior and the relationship. The line 'You never call me when you're sober' implies that the partner only reaches out when under the influence, highlighting the lack of genuine connection and communication.

The song also touches on themes of self-respect and empowerment. The protagonist is tired of the lies and refuses to be a victim any longer, as indicated by the lines 'Couldn't take the blame, sick with shame' and 'You can't play the victim this time.' The decision to no longer tolerate this behavior and the demand for the partner to take responsibility for their actions is a strong message of reclaiming one's power in a relationship that has been marred by disappointment and manipulation.