The Resilience of a Spurned Lover

The song "Total" by Bienvenido Granda, a Cuban singer known for his bolero performances, delves into the emotional aftermath of unrequited love and the resilience of the human spirit in the face of rejection. The lyrics speak from the perspective of someone who has been scorned by a lover, addressing the other person's attempt to humiliate them by boasting about having spurned their affection. The narrator counters this by expressing indifference and a sense of liberation from the emotional ties that once bound them.

The song's chorus, "Total si me hubieras querido, Ya me hubiera olvidado, De tu querer," translates to "After all, if you had loved me, I would have already forgotten your love." This line encapsulates the main theme of the song: moving on from a love that was never reciprocated. The narrator asserts that they have lived without the other's love before and can continue to do so, highlighting a sense of self-sufficiency and the ability to overcome heartache.

"Total" uses the metaphor of death to illustrate the finality of the relationship's end, suggesting that longing for the other's love is as futile as trying to avoid death. The narrator's declaration of being tired of kissing implies a weariness with shallow or insincere affections, further emphasizing their readiness to leave the past behind and embrace a future without the person who rejected them. The song resonates with anyone who has experienced the pain of unrequited love and the subsequent journey towards healing and self-empowerment.

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