Why

Annie Lennox's song 'Why' is a poignant exploration of regret and the pain of miscommunication in relationships. The lyrics convey a deep sense of sorrow and apology for past actions, with the narrator repeatedly trying to express remorse, only to feel misunderstood. The repetition of the question 'Why' underscores the confusion and frustration of not being able to bridge the emotional gap with the person they are addressing. The song suggests a cycle of conflict where attempts at reconciliation are met with resistance, leading to further hurt and a sense of hopelessness.

The second verse delves into the narrator's self-awareness and acknowledgment of their own flaws, such as being 'mad,' 'blind,' or 'viciously unkind.' Despite these admissions, there is a plea for understanding, as the narrator claims an ability to read the other person's thoughts and recognizes the relationship is in jeopardy. The imagery of a sinking boat represents the deteriorating state of the relationship, and the suggestion to 'cast away those doubts' indicates a desire to salvage what is left, even as some things are 'better left unsaid.'

The final verse is a powerful and introspective conclusion, listing the things the narrator has not done or experienced, juxtaposed with the dreams and emotions that are truly felt. The repetition of 'I don't think you know how I feel' emphasizes the disconnect and the longing to be truly understood by the other person. The song ends without resolution, leaving the listener with a sense of the unresolved emotional turmoil that comes from a lack of communication and understanding in relationships.