The Way It Is

VRSTY's song 'The Way It Is' delves into the emotional turmoil and personal growth that follows a toxic relationship. The lyrics are a raw and honest reflection of the pain and betrayal experienced by the narrator. The opening lines, 'Don't speak / Maybe you should mind your tongue and the lies that you bury deep,' set the tone for the song, highlighting the deceit and secrets that have plagued the relationship. The narrator's frustration and disappointment are palpable as they address the person who has caused them so much pain.

The chorus, 'Oh I wonder / Where were you when I was drowning going under / Save yourself that's just the way it is,' captures the sense of abandonment and self-preservation that the narrator feels. They are left to fend for themselves while the other person prioritizes their own well-being. This sentiment is further emphasized with the lines, 'I hope nobody does the things you did to me / No I am not the same as I was before,' indicating a profound transformation and a desire to protect others from similar harm.

Throughout the song, the narrator repeatedly mentions 'going through changes' and 'tearing through the pages,' symbolizing a process of self-discovery and healing. The repeated assertion that they are 'not the same as I was before' underscores the significant personal growth that has occurred. The song ultimately conveys a message of resilience and empowerment, as the narrator emerges stronger and more self-aware from their painful experiences. VRSTY's powerful lyrics and emotive delivery make 'The Way It Is' a compelling anthem for anyone who has endured and overcome a toxic relationship.