How Have You Been?

Tom Rosenthal's song 'How Have You Been?' delves into the depths of solitude and introspection. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of someone lying in the corner of their world, hidden and unheard. This imagery suggests a state of isolation, both physically and emotionally. The repetition of phrases like 'Hiding under my head' and 'Never to be found' emphasizes a desire to retreat from the world, perhaps due to overwhelming feelings or a need for self-preservation.

The recurring question, 'How have you been?' serves as a poignant reminder of the human need for connection and understanding. Despite the protagonist's isolation, there is a yearning to know and be known by others. This is further highlighted by the lines 'I woke up but it didn't go away' and 'I woke up and I still know who you are,' which suggest a persistent awareness of someone significant, even amidst personal struggles. The song captures the tension between wanting to hide and the innate desire for human connection.

The latter part of the song introduces a sense of longing and unfulfilled expectations. Questions like 'Did you expect me to cry?' and 'Will you not think of me tonight?' reveal a deep-seated vulnerability and a plea for recognition. The repetition of these questions underscores the emotional weight carried by the protagonist. The song's melancholic tone and introspective lyrics resonate with anyone who has experienced loneliness and the complex emotions that come with it. Tom Rosenthal's gentle yet evocative musical style enhances the song's reflective nature, making 'How Have You Been?' a touching exploration of solitude and the human condition.