Reconsider

The XX's song 'Reconsider' delves into the complexities of unresolved love and the lingering emotions that come with it. The lyrics paint a picture of someone who has returned from a period of absence, only to find that the feelings they left behind are still very much alive. The opening lines, 'Remember me, I'm the one that's back from over / Time's gone by and I'm still so far from over,' suggest a sense of unfinished business and emotional turmoil that has persisted despite the passage of time.

The reappearance of the other person in the narrator's life brings a flood of emotions, as indicated by the lines, 'You reappeared like you had never been gone / I lose composure / You're touching me like you have no desire for closure.' This suggests that the relationship was left in a state of ambiguity, and the physical touch reignites old feelings, making it difficult for the narrator to maintain their composure. The repeated plea to 'Reconsider' implies a desire for the other person to think about the relationship and its unresolved aspects.

The song also explores the theme of time and its impact on perception and emotions. The lines, 'Did you lie awake like I did / I stayed up 'til the stars didn't recognize me / So long, I waited so long,' highlight the sleepless nights and the emotional toll of waiting for something that may never come. The contrast between 'My sun becomes your moon' signifies the different perspectives and emotional states of the two individuals involved. Despite the familiarity of the love they once shared, the passage of time has altered their experiences and perceptions, making reconciliation a complex and uncertain endeavor.