Ordinary Pain

Stevie Wonder's 'Ordinary Pain' delves into the complexities of heartache and the emotional turmoil that accompanies a broken relationship. The song begins with the protagonist waiting by the phone, hoping for a call that never comes, and realizing that the pain they feel is far from ordinary. This sets the tone for the rest of the song, where the protagonist grapples with the realization that their emotional suffering is profound and unique, not just a fleeting discomfort.

As the song progresses, the protagonist confronts the reality of their situation by visiting their former lover, only to walk away with a deeper understanding of their pain. The lyrics emphasize that this is not just a simple heartache but something much more significant. The repeated refrain, 'It's more than just an ordinary pain in your heart,' underscores the depth of the emotional wound. The protagonist is advised not to fool themselves but to keep their suffering private, highlighting the isolating nature of deep emotional pain.

The latter part of the song shifts perspective, revealing the other side of the story. The former lover acknowledges the pain they caused and reflects on the cyclical nature of love and heartbreak. The lyrics suggest that both parties are trapped in a 'lovey-dovey game' where joy and pain are intertwined. The song concludes with a sense of resignation and acceptance, as both individuals come to terms with the end of their relationship and the inevitable pain that accompanies it. Stevie Wonder's soulful delivery and poignant lyrics make 'Ordinary Pain' a powerful exploration of the emotional complexities of love and loss.