Stressed Out

Rex Orange County's song 'Stressed Out' delves into the emotional turmoil caused by insincere friendships and the pressures of social expectations. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of betrayal and the realization that some people in our lives may not have our best interests at heart. The opening lines, 'They wanna take what's yours / They wanna go for dinner on your name,' suggest a sense of exploitation, where others seek to benefit from the protagonist's success or reputation without genuine care or support.

The recurring theme of stress and deceit is evident in the chorus, 'They wanna see me stressed out every day, I know it / They wanna lie and still be friends.' This highlights the toxic nature of these relationships, where the protagonist feels constantly undermined and manipulated. The realization that these so-called friends are absent during times of need, 'But when you're at your worst, they're not there / And you discovered that they don't care,' underscores the loneliness and disappointment that come with recognizing the superficiality of these connections.

The song also touches on the naivety and unfairness felt by the protagonist, 'So, you didn't know any better / Doesn't it feel unfair?' This line captures the innocence and trust that was misplaced, leading to a sense of betrayal and injustice. The repetition of 'Doesn't it?' emphasizes the emotional weight of this realization. The bridge, with its repeated lines 'Oh, you wanna see how? / Only wanna check on me now,' further illustrates the frustration of being valued only when convenient for others, rather than being genuinely cared for.

' Stressed Out' by Rex Orange County is a poignant reflection on the challenges of navigating relationships and the emotional toll of discovering who truly cares. It serves as a reminder to be cautious of those who may not have our best interests at heart and to value genuine connections over superficial ones.