Afraid

Nico's song 'Afraid' delves into the complex themes of identity, autonomy, and the struggle for self-acceptance. The repeated lines 'Cease to know or to tell / Or to see or to be your own' suggest a relinquishing of one's own identity and will, possibly in favor of conforming to societal expectations or another person's desires. This loss of self is further emphasized by the line 'Have someone else's will as your own,' indicating a surrender of personal autonomy and the adoption of an external will, which can be a metaphor for the pressures to conform and the loss of individuality.

The refrain 'You are beautiful and you are alone' poignantly captures the paradox of being admired yet isolated. Beauty here could symbolize not just physical appearance but also inner qualities and uniqueness. Despite this beauty, the individual remains alone, highlighting the loneliness that can accompany the struggle for self-identity and the feeling of being misunderstood or unappreciated by others. This loneliness is compounded by the societal tendency to reward the 'ardorless and plain,' those who conform and do not challenge the status quo, rather than those who are unique and graceful.

The lines 'Confuse your hunger capture the fake' and 'Banish the faceless reward your grace' suggest a call to reject superficial desires and falsehoods, and instead, embrace and reward genuine grace and authenticity. Nico seems to be urging the listener to see through the facades and value true beauty and individuality. The song, with its haunting melody and introspective lyrics, serves as a powerful commentary on the struggle to maintain one's identity and the courage it takes to be true to oneself in a world that often values conformity over authenticity.