I Guess

Mitski's song 'I Guess' delves into the profound sense of loss and the daunting task of self-redefinition following the end of a significant relationship. The opening lines, 'I guess, I guess / I guess this is the end,' immediately set a tone of reluctant acceptance. The repetition of 'I guess' underscores the uncertainty and disbelief that often accompany the end of a deep emotional connection. Mitski acknowledges the need to 'learn / To be somebody else,' highlighting the transformative impact of the relationship and the challenge of rediscovering one's identity in its absence.

The lyrics 'It's been you and me / Since before I was me' suggest a relationship so integral that it predates the singer's sense of self. This line poignantly captures the idea that the relationship was foundational to her identity. The subsequent lines, 'Without you, I don't yet know / Quite how to live,' express the disorientation and vulnerability that follow such a loss. Mitski's use of 'yet' implies a glimmer of hope or potential for future growth, even if it feels distant and uncertain in the moment.

In the latter part of the song, Mitski shifts to a more reflective tone. The imagery of 'It's still as a pond / I am staring into' evokes a sense of calm and introspection. This quiet moment allows her to express gratitude, 'From here I can say / Thank you,' suggesting a sense of closure and appreciation for the experiences shared. The repetition of 'Thank you' reinforces the importance of acknowledging the past, even as she faces the daunting task of moving forward. Through 'I Guess,' Mitski masterfully captures the complex emotions of loss, identity, and gratitude, offering a poignant reflection on the end of a significant chapter in life.