Ceniza Fría

The song 'Ceniza Fría' by Los Chiches Del Vallenato, a Colombian Vallenato group, delves into the emotional turmoil following a failed relationship. The lyrics express a conversation between the protagonist and his former lover, where he confronts her about the pain she caused him and the subsequent damage to her own dignity.

The song begins with the protagonist addressing his ex-partner, who has returned to speak with him. He boldly asks her who hurt her after their relationship ended, highlighting that he never intended to cause her such pain. The lyrics suggest that she has been wronged by someone else, and he reflects on the irony of her suffering the same fate she once inflicted upon him. The protagonist's pain is evident as he recounts the love and respect he gave her, only to be met with betrayal and heartache.

As the song progresses, the protagonist makes it clear that although she may have returned, things can never be the same as they were. He feels that life often offers second chances when it's too late to matter. The refrain 'El primero fue primero / Y de segundo no quiero' translates to 'The first was first / And I don't want to be second.' This line encapsulates the essence of the song: the protagonist's refusal to rekindle the relationship, as he cannot accept being a second choice. He chooses to be honest about his feelings, preferring sincerity over settling for a diminished love.