As coisas são como são

In the song "As coisas são como são" by João Paulo e Daniel, the lyrics delve into the complexities of unrequited love and the self-deception that often accompanies it. The narrator reflects on how dreams and desires can lead one astray from reality, causing emotional turmoil. The phrase "finge que não vê as coisas como são" (pretend not to see things as they are) encapsulates the essence of this self-deception, highlighting how the heart can blind one to the truth.

The narrator admits to being the architect of his own downfall, acknowledging that he was the one who "viajei na imaginação" (traveled in imagination) and "fiz gol contra" (scored an own goal). These metaphors illustrate how he created unrealistic expectations and ultimately sabotaged his own happiness. The repeated acknowledgment of being his own villain underscores a theme of personal responsibility and the painful realization that he misinterpreted the signs of affection.

The song also touches on the disparity between the narrator's feelings and the reality of the relationship. He believed he had something substantial, metaphorically described as having "um boi" (a bull) but thinking he had "uma boiada" (a herd). This metaphor poignantly captures the overestimation of the relationship's depth. The repeated lines about the other person never promising eternal love or intending to deceive further emphasize that the narrator's suffering stems from his own misjudgments. Ultimately, the song is a poignant exploration of the heart's illusions and the journey back to self-awareness.