The Struggle of Unrequited Love in H.E.R.'s 'U'

H.E.R.'s song 'U' delves into the emotional turmoil of unrequited love and the frustration of feeling unappreciated in a relationship. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a one-sided relationship where the protagonist is deeply invested, but her partner remains indifferent and hard to impress. The repeated line 'Played the fool, but I know now' signifies a moment of realization and self-awareness, highlighting the emotional growth of the protagonist as she begins to see the reality of her situation.

The chorus, 'It could be U.S. / There's too many letters / But it's only you, only you,' cleverly plays with the idea of 'us' versus 'you.' This wordplay emphasizes the protagonist's desire for a mutual, loving relationship, but she is met with the harsh truth that her partner is not equally invested. The repetition of 'only you' underscores her fixation on this person, despite the lack of reciprocation and the emotional toll it takes on her.

H.E.R. also touches on the theme of self-worth and the struggle to maintain one's dignity in the face of unreturned affection. Lines like 'I'm always holding you down / Even though you mess around' and 'You ain't showing me no love / You just want me to show off' reveal the protagonist's internal conflict between her loyalty and the recognition that she deserves better. The song ultimately serves as a poignant reflection on the pain of loving someone who doesn't love you back and the journey towards self-respect and emotional independence.

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  5. We Made It
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