Love Who We Are Meant To

Feist's song 'Love Who We Are Meant To' delves into the intricate and often painful realities of love and relationships. The lyrics reflect a sense of uncertainty and improvisation, as the singer admits to 'making it up as I go.' This line sets the tone for the entire song, highlighting the unpredictability and lack of control one often feels in matters of the heart. The singer grapples with the idea that love doesn't always follow a clear or logical path, and sometimes, despite our deepest desires, we don't end up with the person we believe we are meant to be with.

The chorus, 'We will struggle with the truth / That sometimes we don’t get to / Love who we are meant to,' encapsulates the central theme of the song. It speaks to the universal experience of unfulfilled love and the emotional turmoil that accompanies it. The lyrics suggest a resignation to this harsh reality, yet there is also a sense of acceptance and understanding. The struggle with truth and the acceptance of unfulfilled love are portrayed as part of the human experience, something that everyone must come to terms with at some point.

Feist also touches on the romanticization of denial and the idealization of love. Lines like 'Even denial is romantic / And that’s romance’s disadvantage' reveal the complexities of romantic relationships. The singer acknowledges that sometimes, the idea of love and the person we idealize can be just as powerful as the real thing, even if it is ultimately unfulfilling. The song closes with a poignant reflection on the nature of love, suggesting that even unfulfilled or lonely love is still a form of love, albeit a painful one. This nuanced exploration of love's many facets makes 'Love Who We Are Meant To' a deeply resonant and thought-provoking piece.