Orgulho
Bidarma
The Destructive Power of Pride in Love
Bidarma's song "Orgulho" delves into the emotional turmoil caused by pride in a romantic relationship. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of two individuals who, despite their genuine love for each other, allow pride to create a chasm between them. The song begins with the protagonist's decision to be alone, acknowledging the consuming pain that follows. This decision is mirrored by the partner, yet the pride prevents them from reaching out to one another, leading to a breakdown in communication.
The song poignantly describes how pride can overshadow the sweetness of love, comparing their once vibrant relationship to a "brigadeiro," a popular Brazilian sweet. As the relationship deteriorates, the couple becomes "dois confusos shanty," or two confused souls, who choose different paths due to their inability to overcome their pride. The absence of messages or calls symbolizes the silence that pride enforces, leaving both parties suffering internally while thinking of each other.
Bidarma's lyrics highlight the irony of pride, which is meant to protect one's dignity but instead amplifies the pain and loneliness. The repeated plea to "esquece o orgulho e vem" (forget the pride and come) serves as a desperate call to overcome this barrier and reconnect. The song ultimately reflects on the universal struggle of balancing pride and vulnerability in relationships, urging listeners to prioritize love and connection over ego and isolation.